I agree! I've discussed the ways to make him happy and deal with this situation with a calm state of mind. The man I love has put on a little weight. Just because hes lazy and doesnt care anymore doesnt mean you still have to be attracted to a fat and lazy version of your husband. Fat people | My Husband makes comments about my weight. Both mom and baby came through with flying colors. Here's the thing. Im the bloated one. Then snuggle him and let him crush you with his pounds while, you knowfat boy s**! You need to let her do what makes her feel happy. I'm willing to bet, though, that vary soon the real goal will be 400. Has anyone discussed it with their partner and how do you approach the conversation? Say yes, and gain a few pounds, but don't overdo it. I am that fat wife. She has insisted that my brother get fat as well. There is only one issue that has become increasingly difficult to deal with: he is rapidly gaining weight. She was pretty happy about losing weight, she made it down to 210, when one day, she eventually noticed that the backs of her thighs looked gross when she was standing--she was right. Oh, the babys doing good, and I guess a bit chubby. Fatten him up and race him to 300. That's the real trick. There is always next year to shape up! This one is different. You've accepted that you're now a fat man. Id love to be big as a cow but have work and life demands that keep me in check. Give the gift of exercise. It's so uncharacteristic of me, especially since my last boyfriend was a total sports buff. We have been married for 28 years. I think it is kind of interesting that my oldest who is 5. weighs almost as much as your 10 year old. People with skinny fat tend to have really attractive bodies, so it's no surprise that you like your boyfriend's skinny fat body. It isn't an uncontrollable . How would I say anything? Hopefully, this time next January, I'll will be waddling at the 350 lb mark. How do you feel about it? I call him fatty and tubby, and sometimes when I text him, I call him Fat Boy. What justification do people have for imposing that type of stress on someone? All the best to you and your beauitful, round woman. They're sooo cute! At that height, you have to be 180 pounds to be on the cusp of obesity. Me married to a fat lazy guy. I'm happy and lucky. Not only does it look horrible and holds you back in business, what about diabetes or heart attacks??? Well, she knew I wouldn't mind at all if she gained weight, so she soon was eating anything she wanted, and the fat piled on. When we got married, my 5'5" wife was chubby at 175 lbs. He's not overly muscular, but he's lean and sculpted. Now we are very happy and healthy and s** is amazing. Put that extra fat on girl - he loves the blubber. The first time I saw him shirtless, my jaw dropped. Well, I really, really porked cuz I gains 88 pounds. He used to run, but now he hardly exercises at all, he barely even walks the dog (it's his dog and now I do almost all of the walking). Some people are more attracted to fatter bodies than fit or skinny ones, so its just a matter of preferences at the end of the day, which is totally okay. They were'nt worried about how the partner's of his daughter/sister looks. What is a realistic expectation to have of yourself. He says not to worry, he loves my THICCCCC body. I also say "Your b.o.o.b.s are bigger than mine!" But life happens and with work and kids and the house it is only natural that he got bigger. But her subtle encouragement has spoken volumes. I responded patting his belly and asking for his 'bikini season' and he smile and told me he looks now better than ever. People will skinny fat are at risk of the same medical health conditions as obese people, except it becomes more dangerous for them since it is not easy to notice from the outside. My chubby wife has grown into quite a large woman in the last 10 years, well into the 300 lb range and I LOVE IT.I never knew I liked fat women until I met her and as she grew fatter and fatter s** got better and better. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, Scan this QR code to download the app now. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. My girlfriend getting fatter and I like it: Four best reasons why: 1. What kinds of things are they saying? In the mean time, I'm just enjoying her massive belly and butt and great s**. I love how watching a successful business person grow wider and wider. Fat but not "holy s***" fat like she is now. I keep getting fatter and she keeps aggressively offering me desserts and seconds. Couldn't keep my hands off her. But no plans for diet or exercise to lose all this weight, unless, you know, something goes wrong with my health. You might say something like: Im very sad because I feel like we arent as connected or romantic as before, and I feel like Ive lost some of my attraction to you. He will grow for you. no dibetes or nothin. I fretted over that but he said he preferred by fatter and encouraged me to just eat what i want and so i did, which was really liberating for me. Its been 4 years and we're married now and i've gained 100 pounds, yet he still keeps feeding me, giving me larger portions and more dessert than ever because he wants me to get to 400 pounds, which is fine with me cuz now i just, like, don't care anymore about how hevy i am. Haha I assume the censored comment was "b-o-o-b-s." I don't know why but i think it's funny when guys get fat and they grow a pair, sorry LOL. Avoid having serious conversations with him. Lucky man fatten her more. So you should still put some care into his diet and exercise. Better s**, less arrogant and more relaxed.Just gotta keep having s** with them and keep giving them good food for an easy life. Her next goal is 500 lbs. No. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. With her size now I have to have her track pants made and forget undergarments bras and panties they don't make any large enough for her. A link that will let you reset your password has been emailed to you. I am fat. But I am so, so, so turned on. Your second paragraph was unnecessary and sounds like excuses. When I met him he weighed 185-190 and looked sooo good. YOUR KILLING YOUR HUSBANDS!!!". Mutual gaining is fantastic. Now, he doesn't get a second look, haha, all mine! . I LOVE it when people ask me about my weight gain, I saw an old friend earlier this week that I haven't seen in a few years and she was SHOCKED at how much weight I've put on. My wifes been quietly adding bigger portions to my plate and offering dessert. The name calling just makes me eat more. I envision that one day in the not too distant future I will have to hire a full time aid/nanny/housekeeper for my wife and chubby kids. mmmmmmmm Anita G. Last week my chubby hubby called me, he needed a seat belt extender on a flight. Sophie-X. So far she doesn't seem affected but who knows for the future. !Anita G. I gained 77 pounds in the pandemic, all of it belly, and all of it flab, like my wife says "You're almost like a woman now." I wouldnt say I want her to keep gaining weight, but my level of attraction to her is higher than it was before she gained the weight. Its very important to me that we take care of ourselves and this is part of that. You can also bring up how you feel you havent been having sex as much recently and wanting to change that. We have two extremes in America, a diet culture and an obesity culture. Maybe your boyfriend likes it as much as you do, so he is not particularly worried about it. I wouldnt say its a really noticeable gain so far unless Im in a swimsuit. The s** is fantastic. Or she just loves you, wants you to be happy and doesnt care about your marriage waddle. Should I tell him? Whenever he comes to meet with me, he brings fast food with him. It feels so good, I can't describe it.Some of my friends and my doctor have been concerned, I mean, it's hard not to notice but we stay active with walks and hikes. If youre in the middle of a hurricane, for example, you might not be like, Damn, my husband Harold has really sexy calves, even if they normally get you going. When we start dating we share gym sessions, but after the wedding he was getting lazy and said me so often that he must work at home or so on. To be honest while I would support him if he wanted to lose the weight I dont think he would look good at his age back to his skinny old self. And Im waddling more now than ever. I'm retired! I dont think a belly looks bad on a man and he has a strong frame and can carry the weight. Listen to what he says and how he responds. My Boyfriend Loves Fat Women. Try my best to make believe I enjoy it but faking. At 20 I loved my boyfriends hard body. My wife is also fat and it's so hot. I like things round and big. Weight gain is really never the reason for divorce. I think they're crazy and completely insensitive. I keep myself in shape as I have to take care of my gorgeous huge wife and my plump little darlings. In this article, we have discussed this topic in detail. Anyone getting fat for a new years resolution? In simpler words, just because you look skinny and think that you have a healthy body does not mean you are fully healthy because of skinny fat. And yeah I love it when it happens to me. I'm just too lazy to try and lose it! Can you take walks with the dog together? Have been almost this heavy previously, and was really stressed about it. I don't know. Im sure there are more examples that didnt make it into your letter that are not exercise-related. My wife is very fat with big bum and belly and I love it . Always great to see old friends who are shocked at the fattening wife. This is so adorable:"but I've made sure my husband got really fat. No, instead of focusing on cutting, nutritionists recommend bulking up for people with skinny fat to avoid additional health complications. I know it's not good for your health. What makes you feel good in your body, confident, and happy. As they widen and bulge they advertise their greed and indulgence to the world. My wife loves it! If you do, you shouldnt. He's about 6'1 or 6'2" I think. Shell offer seconds or keep sweets around knowing I cant help myself. Of course, I'm in heaven. He wants to keep you for himself - He is obsessed with you and wants to ensure that you stay with him forever. After the pregnancy, she just never lost the weight, and in fact, much to my delight, kept gaining. Id be angry! Almost 270 here, with massive gut which is a fat shaming target. 65 pounds in 24 months is a lot. Fatten him up! But: He's fat. I fantasize about poking the bulging bellies of these privileged yet porcine princes and princesses, and calling them "piggy". We'all think he looks like a real healthy plump boy. Sometimes I would require him to keep eating in the bedroom. He is fully aware, Im sure, that his body has changed. Whenever I observe how fat Ive gotten, my wife just raises her eyebrows and smiles seductively. As far as you know right now, hes worth it and the relationship is worth it. Then bring bigger pants on the honeymoon so he can enjoy himself. He's not really proactive about it, though. In that case, you probably like the way he is getting fat. That will make her feel confident and beautiful and want her to keep those extra pounds for her appreciative man! He had never mentioned being into bigger girls before we dated and married. It is so much fun to watch a slightly chubby women lose control and pack on the pounds after marriage. Curlybig5000 at yahoo.com. There is plenty of them out there. On the days that I need to be on the road, my mother-in-law helps out as my wife is growing too fat to take care of the kids and the house at the same time. My husband is fattening up even without my help. My ssbbw wife is about 380lbs and was supposed to lose 100 lbs for our daughters wedding but gained 50 lbs instead! How much weight has she put on? 1,500 calories in fatty fast food is much different than 1500 calories of lean protein and vegetables. 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